Have you ever been in that situation where you only want your intimate circle of friends and no more? It’s just too demanding! Not enough time to spread yourself around. Your girls know you and you know them. We need no others! Right? Right!
Well, just maybe. Maybe this ideology is wrong. Lord knows I love people. I love all my friendships and everyone is just as important to me as the next. Doesn’t matter if it’s a very best friend or a friendship whose flame has died down to a flicker! I value each one!
So why not a friend on the fly? I mean spontaneity is something I’m not afraid of! Even though I tend to be so schedule oriented!! It’s amazing how just a few minutes of friendly banter can actually empower your spirit and carry you through the day in and day out of it all!! I actually have realized I have many such as this!! When I pull up a so called friend list from social media or go through my contact list, I’m actually amazed how many of these are my “just wing it girls!” No, they’re not a part of my intimate circle. But they’re here! In my life! Five minutes of casual grocery store greeting or 30 minutes of once in a blue moon catch up call! I’m so blessed to have such opportunities to fuel up with their smiles and stories.
The next time I have the thought of my intimate circle… I will be reminded of my friends on the fly….and how truly big my heart is! After all, it’s packed full of all those who matter in this life!
Be blessed and be a blessing!